The bottom line for us is this:

• make sure everyone is contributing

• remain flexible to individual schedules and social lives

• never cave to cleaning tantrums

• don't let it get so bad that everyone is freaking out

• and most importantly MODEL the behavior you want them to follow. 

This letting go can be really hard. For me it's one of the biggest challenges I face across all spaces in my life. But no matter how difficult the letting go can be, it inevitably makes room for the most amazing sense of relief and allows for growth in new places. 

I don't cook every night. I'm gonna say 3-4 of seven nights we get a full on home cooked meal. Sometimes there's cereal, sometimes frozen pizza, and occasionally hubby jumps in the kitchen. He's a great cook.....

Showing up to my life in such a powerful way with WHY work and Feng Shui, is quite possibly the most transformational work I've ever done. Things are about to get REALLY good!

Parenting really is the hardest thing I'll ever love and here's how I manage my thoughts to stay in the game and not damage my kids too much. 

"Smile so bright,
you can be seen from outer space."